Xmr is in Binance) Dash too)
Many sites accept xmr too, just google it.
Your last sentense is noncence, may i say.
There is massive study on xmr privacy level and no scientific research on that it can be decrypt. And design of blokchain in XMR made this complicated more for each day, so longer it live more complicated it to decrypt.
This crypto privacy focused idea is deep inside every crypro currency in market. LTC implementing MimbleWimble protocol for privacy, Beam (such shame, but still) is on binance too.
Do you once imagine this: if you have a 1000 btc and spend 0.000001 to buy a vpn that vpn dealer will know that you have such big btc in pocket? Will you live long and prosper if you are in some bad places of world and every smuggler out knows that you have more that mil $ in flash card/phone?)))
Really, mate, no offence, but consider to think that privacy is not just about some crimes or bad people. Its about defense you funds and even life of your loving ones too, in some places someone can steal your wife for ransom or bitter. So, imo, privacy is good, Monero will do it (lol, not sure about it, still). Love Privacy and make your pocket your pocket again).